A Part of My Heart

Part of My Heart

For Brigette Bonfiglio—
Here’s to looking forward and being par t of one another’s
lives for a very long time,
in whatever form is meant to be.

She wore her emotions
effortlessly
for the world to see
on that deliciously freckled
and dimpled face of hers,
sugared sprinkles of delight.

A glaring and furrowed brow—
if she was not fond of you
but when she was—
oh, her smile seemed to
illuminate the entire room.
light poured in from every direction
as though it was daybreak
and the sun had begun to climb
over the plush green hillsides,
almost blinding one’s sight enough
that a hand was needed to shade
the eyes.

The cork-screwed, rust-colored hair
drew people to her—
people just loved to touch her,
and her hair.
But the Girl Scout heart of pure sparkling gold
Is what kept everyone close.

Just quite—
not shy,
but strong in convictions and morals,
and so loyal she no doubt would take the first swing
if a situation aroused where she needed to defend
a loved one.

Her nature was simply to help others,
to be the calming rock-strong shoulder
and chest to lay one’s troubles upon.
She could sense unhappiness,
but never pushed another to divulge more than intended.
By simply engaging her in any sort of conversation
you told her your life story without even realizing it.

And when she left,
whales from the sea sighed heavy sighs,
honeybees atop the roofs buzzed a little slower,
persimmons from the lonely tree in her backyard dropped to the ground,
And I simply cried.

Goodbye my dear, dear friend,
my confidant, dancing and drinking partner,
a part of my heart.

I Would Have Liked to Show You

I would have liked to show you
the things that I love
and cherish—
things that warm my
indifferent exterior.

Right now my eyes gloss
looking at the pale blue
sunset fading
to a persimmon orange.
Oh how exquisite the water

is rippling against the otherwise
still ocean.
If you were still here, I’m sure
I would have shared
my favorite spot with you.

And we would sit side by side—
you drinking chai, me peppermint.
And we would be content
in the silence,
because the comfort we mutually

felt when together
allowed for no words
to be spoken.
And after our tea, I would
have taken you—

to the grainy damp sand and
insisted stubbornly
for you to take your shoes off.
One must always feel the luminous earth
between one’s toes at the beach.

Each grain a sparkling gift
from the gods of the sea--
and if lucky, we would find the
quintessential shell.
A shell so white,

it resembled virgin snow.
Shell hunting is quite possibly
my most prized pastime.
I had forgotten it lately,
And had hence forgotten—

to mention it to you.
You see, the ocean is where
my happiness lies,
where my stress-ridden shoulders
can slump in relaxation.

I can feel calm near the water,
listening to it lapping in the distance
playing a never-ending game of tag
with toddlers and golden retrievers.
But I forgot to tell you all of this.

I didn’t allow for you
to see the bits of me that come
together to create this quirky puzzle
that at times, I cannot even
find the pieces to.

I’m sorry.
Oh, now it is dusk.
The forthcoming night is aglow
with barely visible, crisp white
boats, in the distance gently

rocking back and forth to the rhythm
of the earth.
A fading sight
which can easily be appreciated
or unfortunately ignored.

I will take a picture for you
so you can pretend you were
here— sitting beside me,
drinking tea,
and watching the world fall to sleep.

Overstimulation

Too many times during the week,
too many people,
want too much of her.

This is a girl,
who now can’t
even keep the days
of the week straight—
can’t go a day without
running because she need to
release the tension
mounting within her tendons.
She savors the time alone in the shower,
just washing the day’s grime from her
dirt-ridden scalp.
She can’t drink without blacking out
because she is so over-exhausted
the world becomes overwhelming as
she tries to self-medicate.

Too many times during the day
too many annoyances
leave her leaning toward solitude.

This is a woman
whose mouth can no longer
fake a cinnamon-roll-sweet smile—
she can’t handle the dim-witted questions from
oblivious customers and responds with hidden sarcasm.
She worries she’ll be stuck in a job that doesn’t
stimulate her mind enough—
already boredom frightens her
into the fetal position underneath
the warmth of a cotton sheet.
She is too young, to feel so scattered
and unhinged—moving all the time,
always searching
for a place to call home,
and a space to call her own.

Too many times
too much
of her life is skimmed over.

This is a woman
who has become
withdrawn from any sort of romantic relationship
because it’s too much work to begin again
with a stranger—
The thought of a simple lunch date suffocates her.
She wakes in cold sweats from nightmares
of becoming an alcoholic like her father
but conversely only feels alive when thoroughly buzzed.
She worries she isn’t living up to her full creative potential,
and that life won’t get any sweeter than in her twenties.
The lines on her once ocean-calm like face have deepened,
at the thought of missing out—
because responsibility and obligation
have shackled her down to the bottom of a river,
her air supply diminishing second by second.
Her once pristine diamond-clear eyes have clouded and dimmed,
the light has begun to flicker out.

Burning Hell

Oh my God
Oh my God
It burns.
It itches.
It is so painful
I think I’m going
to jump
out of my
skin.
Literally—
I’m shaking
and can’t think
straight enough
to even answer
a customer’s simple
question.

I’m at work
for another
five hours.
If I cross
myLegs
maybe
It’ll itch less.
Fuck this—
I can’t make
sandwiches right
now.

Running to the
bathroom
unbuttoning as I
go
my hands
go straight to
my vagina.

Please don’t tell
Me I have
some STD
I think.
No, I’ve seen that
Milky discharge before-
GODDAMNED
YEAST INFECTION.
How the hell is there
yeast up in there anyhow?
I work at a bakery
I don’t employ one in
my vagina.
This is ridiculous.

Here’s the kicker—
The over the counter
medicine
makes the next
twenty minutes
after application
almost worse than
the actual infection.
Seriously—
What person
created a medicine
that made women want
to kill themselves
periodically
for a three-day period
and only after
inducing
excruciating suffering,
provides relief?
A man that got
fucked over
by a woman
that’s who.

The medicine even
recommends waiting
until bedtime
so no “leakage” appears.
I could not care less
about “leakage”
I want the infinite, never satisfied,
itching-burning-stinging
feeling
to be gone.
Now!

I would gladly slather
myself in any home
remedy just to get
rid of it fast.
But who knows
if tea tree oil
works that
well,
or if I should
down a gallon of
probiotic yogurt
to ease the
insatiable urge to itch—
to claw—

I want to
tear
my
vagina
to
pieces.

I feel like
an addict who’s
dealer is out
of town and
my backup
isn’t picking
up my calls.

Twitching
pacing
grimacing
in pain.

Tomorrow
is day
three
of the
treatments.

I can’t wait
to not continuously
yearn
to put my
hands on my
own clit
and scratch
diligently away.

Black Fuzzy Bunny

By watching
a young child
become enveloped
with honest-to-God
glee
just by
eating a piece of
frosted cinnamon roll,
I see that I too
should look
forward to the simple things
more often.

In all honesty it makes
me kind of sick to read what
I just typed.
How cliché and
regurgitated it sounds.

But I am no different
than any other soul
out there
in the world,
plugging along—
getting buy
but not really enjoying
the present
and always looking forward
to what will be.

I am quite certain
I have forgotten to live
with awareness
to my surroundings.
Half the time
I’m zoning out,
always itching to get off work
or putting my ipod in to
flush out
the rest of the world.

Yes,
time is irrevelant
in some instances,
but morbidly I see
that I am about
one-fourth
of the way through my life
(unless technology becomes
untouchable and allows for
people to live ridiculously
past their natural threshold
of age.)

I need to remember
to skip
instead of walking
the way I do.
(Always big strides,
always in a hurry)
I remember an old
boyfriend of mine
would always try to
get me to
slow
down.
It annoyed me.

Half the time I don’t even
eat a meal sitting down—
I’m either driving
with my knees
and trying not to crash
or I’m scarfing food while
there are no customers
at the bakery where I work.
I would imagine it would feel
strange to me now,
foreign,
to sit down,
with a family of sorts,
and eat at a home.

Years ago
my immediate family
lost track of the whole
“family dinner” trend.
We all retired to sitting
in front of the television
or eating
somewhere else altoghether.

To myself I think—
“Maybe
I should try
yoga
or
meditation”
to relax and
regroup
from the day.
But I don’t,
I’ve been saying that for years.

I do like to run though,
it makes me release all the tension—
all the smart-ass comments I’ve bottled up
so I can act pleasant
to the imbecile customers
that walk through the bakery’s door.

At least today—
today I felt like smiling
all day long,
and laughing to myself
about the previous night’s silly
drunken debauchery and
shameless flirting with
the rugged bartender at
my favorite pub.

Last night I laughed so hard
I was doubled over –
tears pouring from
my eyes:

A boy had written me a note saying,
“Have you ever kissed
A black fuzzy bunny
between his ears?”

While I’m reading the note,
he pulls out his pockets
so that each would resemble
an ear.

Clever,
slightly disgusting,
I
loved
It.

It was interesting,
and unexpected.

A week and a half later
I am still smiling because of it.

I Watched You Begin to Die, and it Killed Me

For Kermit Christian Miller


I was destroyed
after looking back
into the photo album
of the
last
family vacation
we shared.

By then the cancer
had spread
like a burning
fire into
every
crevice
of your once
invincible
body.

I was told
Pancreatic cancer
is incredibly hard
to find in early stages.

We wheeled him around
in a chair—
so different from the lumberjack
of a man he once was.

Papa please eat.

He couldn’t.

But to satisfy
my grandma,
he always ordered a
chicken caesar
as a fallback
because he no longer
could mentally retain
what was on the menu.

Papa please drink.

He couldn’t do
that either.

I yearned
for him to order
his old usual—
a bourbon-diet.

For ten days
we all tried to stay
positive—
tried to have
fun.
After all,
it was
a Mexican cruise
during Christmas
and New Year’s.

It was a combination
Of family and dear
Cherished friends
On that boa—
relationships
that have lasted
over a half century.

Every time
the three generations
of people who treasured
my grandpa,
came together,
tiny tears
made trails down his
thin,
thin,
skin.

I remember one day
on that trip
my mom and I
had to lift him
to the bathroom
because my grandma
was speaking to the doctor.

Papa was too weak
to move himself.

I held composure
just long enough
to get him to the door
and run outside
of the room
myself.
He was bones.
He smelled of decaying flesh.

It was then
I realized
I was watching him
slowly die.

I couldn’t catch my breath
and my hands were clenching
the bathroom sink
to the room
just next door.
Tears and snot
relentlessly
plummeted down
my purple face.

My favorite person,
the only man
I considered
good in life
compared to all
other men,
was dying.

On the last
day of the trip
before boarding my flight,
I hugged him
like I would see him
soon—

Two weeks later,
Just days
before my 19th birthday,
I got a call from my mom
saying he didn’t make it.

I lay curled
in a corner of my
dorm room
crying
for hours.
I couldn’t go
to class,
couldn’t eat,
and wished for sleep
so I didn’t have to think
about him
being gone.

My mom and grandma
tried to tell me
(through their own tears)
that it was okay now,
he wasn’t suffering—
even the both of them
didn’t believe it.

There was no real excuse
That could comfort me—
I would never
get to see him again.
I didn’t get to say a real goodbye.

So I wrote down what I loved
about him most,
for his funeral.
But I couldn’t read it
so the pastor did.
I was still having trouble
catching my breath.
Damn tears.

The entire town was there,
even bums that he had given money to.
My grandpa was the epitome
of a kind soul.

This coming January
will be four years
since he passed.
I still can’t mention him
without getting
glassy-eyed.

Papa I miss you,
Your house isn’t the same
without you.
Mucca (my grandma) isn’t the same
without you.
Your best friend can barely visit
because he is reminded that you
are no longer around.
A part of my life ended,
when yours also did.

Cigarettes and Crown

Kissing him--
feels like I shouldn't
which makes me want him
all the more.
The blood rushes
to my lips
plumping them,
priming them,
for his mouth
to bite mine.

God I love
it when he does that.
Please keep nibbling
my neck,
lick the plumeria scent
from my chest,
savor the curves of my hips
that resemble that of a Les Paul's.
Skin to skin warms my core.

He tastes of
cigarettes and crown
with a ginger ale back.
Normally I'm not a
whiskey fan,
but I drink him in,
shot by shot.
Inhibitions no more--
second-hand libations
are oh
so good.